Love

i read something the other day that kinda got in my head alittle. a very depressing piece of literature. all about love. the 4 letter word that makes or breaks alot of people. ive heard alot of complaining about love. some people cant find it. others take it for granted, some simply have no problem with it. some people kill over it. some people kill themselves over it.some start wars over it (helen of troy) the dictionarys definition for the word love is " a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person." another person. not a thing. i guess i can not love movies. only like them alot. anyway. what do i think love is. i think love is an attachment or need to share yourself with someone else. you can love your friends because they make you laugh they listen to your ideas, they encourage you, they like you for who you are, you have many things in common. if that person wasnt in your life you would feel bad. you wouldnt have anyone to joke with. you wouldnt have anyone who gets your inside jokes. you would have no one you can relax and be yourself with. you would have to be prim and proper with people who arent your "loved" ones. i think marriage love is finding that one person thats your best friend. the best of the best of your friends that you dont want to lose. so you get married and your together forever. i dont think sex has alot to do with love. its more of a biological thing. hormones phermones and not to mention it feels good. who wouldnt want that. when you find that one person you really love, you want to share your whole life with them. thats true love. imagine if you will, you go on a beach trip, you have a picnic, collect shells watch the sunset, build a bonfire, look up at the stars. or go camping, roast some smores, cuddle up in the tent, wake up to fresh air and some beautiful quiet scenery. or lets say you go on a cruise to some distant islands, some beautiful place. or mabey you just goto a really good movie that leaves you stunned it was so good. now imagine you did all that all alone. not a single person to share it with. when you talk about it or think about it no one else can relate, cause no one else was there with you. you were all alone. it sucks. you have to have people you love. you have to have that one someone you can share stuff with. the people i hear most complain about love usually have someone. imagine going to work talking to co-workers then the min you come home you dont speak another word until you clock in for work the next day. imagine having no one to invite you out for drinks or go shopping or watch football with. imagine having great grand ideas and no one to tell them to. imagine being a good honast hard working person and not having anyone to be good honast and hardworking for. imagine being so anti social you notice you have little to no conversational skills. you have stuff to say, you just say it in your head and when it comes time for you to speak you come up with 1 word replys. imagine having no one to buy christmas presents for. imagine having no one to kiss on new years. imagine never having to accept a birthday gift. love is all around alot of people. some people take it for granted. love is.......a bitch lol. people just want to share there lifes and be important to someone. no one wants to be just shadows and dust (gladiator 2000) now go out and loves someone lol. this is depressing.